A few months ago, I was asked to be a guest writer for the excellent website, SingleMatters.com. Here is an article I wrote for them a little while back. With some slight changes, I thought it might be nice to re-post it here.

It was spring of my senior year in college. My friend Phil and I decided to go to our first ever “singles Bible study.” There was one in our city that was making all kinds of buzz. Thousands were showing up. “The teaching and music are amazing” we were hearing everywhere. We decided to give it a shot.
What we found was pretty shocking.